The word "fee" has a negative connotation. I’m not sure why when a fee is just a price tag on a service. Brokerage firms have to advertise "no fee IRAs." Credit card companies say "no annual fee." Is a no-fee product necessarily better than a product with a fee?
I see heirloom tomatoes selling for $4.99/lb at the store. I’m not that crazy about tomatoes but I don’t cry bloody murder when I see the price tag. I leave those heirloom tomatoes alone and let someone else have them. I’m sure plenty of people buy them; otherwise the store will have to throw them away every week. Those customers voluntarily pay the price because they value heirloom tomatoes.
Merriam-Webster dictionary defines the word fee as "a sum paid or charged for a service." I had a haircut last week; I paid a haircutting fee. My Costco membership was due for renewal last month; I paid the membership fee. Millions of other Costco members pay Costco every year for the privilege to shop there when other stores welcome them with "no shopping fee."
I look at the services I use. Many charge a fee when no-fee services are available elsewhere. I find that the services I use that charge a fee often deliver a better value than services that don’t charge a fee. Is it universally true that you get what you pay for? Of course not. But you shouldn’t automatically reject a service only because it charges a fee when other similar services don’t charge.
Costco is one example. People pay a fee to shop there because it offers good prices. If you look at Costco’s financials, you will see Costco’s profit is largely from membership fees, not from selling merchandise. The "no shopping fee" at other stores are made up by higher prices.
Fidelity Investments is another example. I have my solo 401k there. I pay $8 a trade when I buy Vanguard ETFs. If I move the account to Vanguard I will not pay a fee when I buy Vanguard funds, but I will be limited to funds that end up costing me more in the long run.
The two credit cards I use most often both have an annual fee. I still come out ahead of alternatives after paying the annual fee.
Because most people are very much against paying a fee, businesses know they have to deliver value when they charge a fee for a service. When they have a hard time selling the fee product, they have to keep enhancing the value proposition, to a point where a fee-product delivers much better value than a no-fee product. Not always true, but it happens.
Now it’s your turn. What is it that you pay a fee when other services don’t charge? What do you get in return?